Saturday, January 18, 2014

Relationship Reflection:



Relationships are very important to me. A healthy relationship is a vital component to my health and well-being. The relationships I have with those in my family are strong relationships and they contribute to a long, healthy, and very happy life. I have positive relationships with many individuals. First and foremost is my husband, mother, father, sisters, brothers, and a host of those I work with and many members of my congregation.

The relationships are positive in that in each case these individuals are very supportive, loving, caring, and are there for you no matter what. They are with you through the good as well as the bad. They are the shoulder to lean on when you need someone to talk to. For instance I have known my husband since I was 10 years old. We have been happily married for 31 years and it is as if we just got married yesterday. He is the best husband a person could ask for. He is a very loving and supportive husband would supports me in whatever it is I would like to do. He always makes himself available when I need to talk. No football game is more important than sitting down having a conversation with me. He know how to bring out the best in me and I am very thankful to have him in my life. My parents as well are still there for me even though I am married. We all have a GREAT relationship. We are truly a family. In addition we make it a point to keep the lines of communication open.

One reason for having such a great relationship stem from how I was raised. The closeness was displayed in my family and it still continues even today. My parents are still happily married and I must say they raised us well. This helped carry over into my relationships that I have with my husband. We have always worked together and we are a team. Our values and beliefs means a lot and this is important in helping us to maintain a positive relationship.

I have not had any challenges in developing and maintaining relationships. I have been surrounded by healthy relationships all my life. A special characteristic of these relationships is to communicate and to be open. I give from the heart and I don’t expect anything in return. I am also very compassionate and I truly care about others and what they are going through. Honesty plays an important part in my relationship. I respect the wishes of others even if I don’t agree with their decisions. These are just a few of the characteristics that make my relationships with others special.

My experiences with relationships/partnerships over the years has impacted me a great deal. Parents and teachers want what’s best for children. As an educator you want parents who are supportive of your teaching techniques and who extend the learning outside the classroom. A parent wants the best education for their child and a teacher who shows your child respect and who is knowledgeable about child growth and development and who demonstrates a professional attitude in the classroom. Regardless of the needs and wants both parent and teacher want what is best for the child. I have learned over the years that in order for this to happen, parents and teachers must build a working partnership that will make a wonderful child care experience for the children in their care. My relationships/partnerships have helped me to develop effective partnerships in my profession.